Comments on: Be the man you want her to marry http://solarcrash.com/2009/12/be-the-man-you-want-her-to-marry/ Creativity, Faith, and Culture in the City Thu, 17 May 2012 21:18:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Lon http://solarcrash.com/2009/12/be-the-man-you-want-her-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-50817 Lon Sat, 16 Jan 2010 05:02:14 +0000 http://solarcrash.com/?p=2358#comment-50817 Hey Melanie - Glad to here it's true... and yes the pressure's on! I still haven't got JD submission in, tell him if he ever gets one written up, i'd be more than happy to post it anytime! grace &peace! Hey Melanie – Glad to here it’s true… and yes the pressure’s on! I still haven’t got JD submission in, tell him if he ever gets one written up, i’d be more than happy to post it anytime! grace &peace!

]]> By: Melanie Heffern http://solarcrash.com/2009/12/be-the-man-you-want-her-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-50768 Melanie Heffern Fri, 15 Jan 2010 03:13:42 +0000 http://solarcrash.com/?p=2358#comment-50768 Glad you got JD in on this thing (I'm just getting to it a bit later!)! Be the man you want her to marry... looking at my dad and his values and how he treated my mom and family life... I'd say there is much truth to that! Sure puts the pressure on eh!? Thankfully God's there to help us all in the parenting process on a daily basis! Glad you got JD in on this thing (I’m just getting to it a bit later!)! Be the man you want her to marry… looking at my dad and his values and how he treated my mom and family life… I’d say there is much truth to that! Sure puts the pressure on eh!? Thankfully God’s there to help us all in the parenting process on a daily basis!

]]> By: lon http://solarcrash.com/2009/12/be-the-man-you-want-her-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-49107 lon Fri, 04 Dec 2009 02:46:48 +0000 http://solarcrash.com/?p=2358#comment-49107 yeah the daughter becoming like mom part is a sweet thought... i still very much agree with Meeker on us as Fathers setting the bar in many ways. I think it'd be fascinating for our daughter's to be able to chronicle us as fathers and how we too continue to grow and change with the help of God... yeah the daughter becoming like mom part is a sweet thought… i still very much agree with Meeker on us as Fathers setting the bar in many ways. I think it'd be fascinating for our daughter's to be able to chronicle us as fathers and how we too continue to grow and change with the help of God…

]]> By: Alan Liu http://solarcrash.com/2009/12/be-the-man-you-want-her-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-49100 Alan Liu Fri, 04 Dec 2009 00:39:33 +0000 http://solarcrash.com/?p=2358#comment-49100 Interesting. It remind me of a statement that those of us who have been single late into life (not me - I'm married - and I was a horn dog when I was young - but that's a different story) would say: Be the person you want to marry. This was important because instead of finding out why everyone else is wrong for you, this kind of thinking put us on the path of reflecting on the things we ought to improve. Faith is, in my opinion, God changing me. And I still have so much that needs changing! And now, I wonder if that history is more in line with Alfred's or Meeker's? But I love this post, because there's a future of watching my daughter become her wonderful mother makes me smile. Interesting. It remind me of a statement that those of us who have been single late into life (not me – I'm married – and I was a horn dog when I was young – but that's a different story) would say: Be the person you want to marry.

This was important because instead of finding out why everyone else is wrong for you, this kind of thinking put us on the path of reflecting on the things we ought to improve. Faith is, in my opinion, God changing me. And I still have so much that needs changing!

And now, I wonder if that history is more in line with Alfred's or Meeker's? But I love this post, because there's a future of watching my daughter become her wonderful mother makes me smile.

]]> By: themartyschmidtblog» Blog Archive » Some quick links http://solarcrash.com/2009/12/be-the-man-you-want-her-to-marry/comment-page-1/#comment-49108 themartyschmidtblog» Blog Archive » Some quick links Thu, 03 Dec 2009 22:08:27 +0000 http://solarcrash.com/?p=2358#comment-49108 [...] I’ve been horrible at staying on top of the conversation going on at Solar Crash. I am way out of my league - the wisdom and thoughts these guys are sharing on being strong fathers is amazing. Check out the latest post here. [...] [...] I’ve been horrible at staying on top of the conversation going on at Solar Crash. I am way out of my league – the wisdom and thoughts these guys are sharing on being strong fathers is amazing. Check out the latest post here. [...]

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