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		<title>By: lon</title>
		<link>http://solarcrash.com/2009/11/she-needs-a-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-48576</link>
		<dc:creator>lon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 03:38:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>testing comments again </description>
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		<title>By: lon</title>
		<link>http://solarcrash.com/2009/11/she-needs-a-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-48483</link>
		<dc:creator>lon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:45:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>actually noticed your comment here did duplicate for once.  i&#039;ll respond to your more detailed note as soon as i have a chance.  thanks Beau </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>actually noticed your comment here did duplicate for once.  i&#39;ll respond to your more detailed note as soon as i have a chance.  thanks Beau </p>
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		<title>By: lon</title>
		<link>http://solarcrash.com/2009/11/she-needs-a-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-48478</link>
		<dc:creator>lon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:26:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>noticed the last few additional comments haven&#039;t duplicated... crossing fingers... i run like another 20 plugins - most of them are fairly standard though - am i the only one with these duplications? </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>noticed the last few additional comments haven&#39;t duplicated&#8230; crossing fingers&#8230; i run like another 20 plugins &#8211; most of them are fairly standard though &#8211; am i the only one with these duplications? </p>
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		<title>By: Beau Lebens</title>
		<link>http://solarcrash.com/2009/11/she-needs-a-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-48477</link>
		<dc:creator>Beau Lebens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:22:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey lon, I&#039;m testing too... odd my comments aren&#039;t duplicating... you did recently update to the latest super-cache plugin - not sure if that had to do with it. We&#039;ve not updated anything, but just thought perhaps quote marks or something are jumpin&#039; in and messin&#039; with things. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey lon, I&#39;m testing too&#8230; odd my comments aren&#39;t duplicating&#8230; you did recently update to the latest super-cache plugin &#8211; not sure if that had to do with it. We&#39;ve not updated anything, but just thought perhaps quote marks or something are jumpin&#39; in and messin&#39; with things. </p>
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		<title>By: Beau Lebens</title>
		<link>http://solarcrash.com/2009/11/she-needs-a-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-48475</link>
		<dc:creator>Beau Lebens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 23:19:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Another test comment. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another test comment. </p>
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		<title>By: Alan Liu</title>
		<link>http://solarcrash.com/2009/11/she-needs-a-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-48446</link>
		<dc:creator>Alan Liu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:05:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting article from the Toronto Star today (Thursday) from the &#039;liberal&#039; side of children&#039;s sex ed, and healthy parenting.  
 
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.parentcentral.ca/parent/newsfeatures/article/727822--what-teens-are-thinking-about-sex&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.parentcentral.ca/parent/newsfeatures/a...&lt;/a&gt; 
 
Notable quotes: &quot;hooking up is the microwaveable burrito of sex&quot;, 
 &quot;book for parents and teachers... springboard for critical discussions.&quot;,  
&quot;opportunity to talk about (sexualality, especially the personal, emotional side&quot;,  
&quot;sex is not a one-size-fits-all format, choose carefully and be confident and proud... whether they do nothing or everything&quot;,  
&quot;even in easy-acces culture, teens aren&#039;t as sophisicated as adults may think. basic impulses, anxieties and risks are still the same&quot; 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting article from the Toronto Star today (Thursday) from the &#39;liberal&#39; side of children&#39;s sex ed, and healthy parenting.  </p>
<p><a href="http://www.parentcentral.ca/parent/newsfeatures/article/727822--what-teens-are-thinking-about-sex" rel="nofollow"></a><a href="http://www.parentcentral.ca/parent/newsfeatures/a" rel="nofollow">http://www.parentcentral.ca/parent/newsfeatures/a</a>&#8230; </p>
<p>Notable quotes: &quot;hooking up is the microwaveable burrito of sex&quot;,<br />
 &quot;book for parents and teachers&#8230; springboard for critical discussions.&quot;,<br />
&quot;opportunity to talk about (sexualality, especially the personal, emotional side&quot;,<br />
&quot;sex is not a one-size-fits-all format, choose carefully and be confident and proud&#8230; whether they do nothing or everything&quot;,<br />
&quot;even in easy-acces culture, teens aren&#39;t as sophisicated as adults may think. basic impulses, anxieties and risks are still the same&quot; </p>
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		<title>By: lon</title>
		<link>http://solarcrash.com/2009/11/she-needs-a-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-48443</link>
		<dc:creator>lon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 09:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Beau, I&#039;m testing too... odd your comments aren&#039;t duplicating... i did recently update to the latest super-cache plugin - not sure if that had to do with it - or if you&#039;ve updated something. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Beau, I&#39;m testing too&#8230; odd your comments aren&#39;t duplicating&#8230; i did recently update to the latest super-cache plugin &#8211; not sure if that had to do with it &#8211; or if you&#39;ve updated something. </p>
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		<title>By: Test Comment</title>
		<link>http://solarcrash.com/2009/11/she-needs-a-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-48442</link>
		<dc:creator>Test Comment</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 09:33:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is another test comment. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is another test comment. </p>
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		<title>By: Beau Lebens</title>
		<link>http://solarcrash.com/2009/11/she-needs-a-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-48440</link>
		<dc:creator>Beau Lebens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 09:14:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just a test comment, but nice post. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just a test comment, but nice post. </p>
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		<title>By: Alan Liu</title>
		<link>http://solarcrash.com/2009/11/she-needs-a-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-48449</link>
		<dc:creator>Alan Liu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 07:05:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting article from the Toronto Star today (Thursday) from the &#039;liberal&#039; side of children&#039;s sex ed, and healthy parenting.  
 
&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.parentcentral.ca/parent/newsfeatures/article/727822--what-teens-are-thinking-about-sex&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;http://www.parentcentral.ca/parent/newsfeatures/a...&lt;/a&gt; 
 
Notable quotes: &quot;hooking up is the microwaveable burrito of sex&quot;, 
 &quot;book for parents and teachers... springboard for critical discussions.&quot;,  
&quot;opportunity to talk about (sexualality, especially the personal, emotional side&quot;,  
&quot;sex is not a one-size-fits-all format, choose carefully and be confident and proud... whether they do nothing or everything&quot;,  
&quot;even in easy-acces culture, teens aren&#039;t as sophisicated as adults may think. basic impulses, anxieties and risks are still the same&quot; 
 </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting article from the Toronto Star today (Thursday) from the &#039;liberal&#039; side of children&#039;s sex ed, and healthy parenting.  </p>
<p><a href="http://www.parentcentral.ca/parent/newsfeatures/article/727822--what-teens-are-thinking-about-sex" target="_blank"></a><a href="http://www.parentcentral.ca/parent/newsfeatures/a" rel="nofollow">http://www.parentcentral.ca/parent/newsfeatures/a</a>&#8230; </p>
<p>Notable quotes: &quot;hooking up is the microwaveable burrito of sex&quot;,<br />
 &quot;book for parents and teachers&#8230; springboard for critical discussions.&quot;,<br />
&quot;opportunity to talk about (sexualality, especially the personal, emotional side&quot;,<br />
&quot;sex is not a one-size-fits-all format, choose carefully and be confident and proud&#8230; whether they do nothing or everything&quot;,<br />
&quot;even in easy-acces culture, teens aren&#039;t as sophisicated as adults may think. basic impulses, anxieties and risks are still the same&quot; </p>
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		<title>By: lon</title>
		<link>http://solarcrash.com/2009/11/she-needs-a-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-48445</link>
		<dc:creator>lon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 04:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Beau, I&#039;m testing too... odd your comments aren&#039;t duplicating... i did recently update to the latest super-cache plugin - not sure if that had to do with it - or if you&#039;ve updated something. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Beau, I&#039;m testing too&#8230; odd your comments aren&#039;t duplicating&#8230; i did recently update to the latest super-cache plugin &#8211; not sure if that had to do with it &#8211; or if you&#039;ve updated something. </p>
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		<title>By: lon</title>
		<link>http://solarcrash.com/2009/11/she-needs-a-hero/comment-page-1/#comment-48419</link>
		<dc:creator>lon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:32:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great point Chris - it&#039;s a weird balance between &#039;playing&#039; the hero and just being a genuine human being.  Meeker comes right out and says our daughters need a hero and not an equal - which is what I (and probably a lot of other guys in our culture these days) tend towards.   
 
Maybe it&#039;s out of a longing for a better friendship with my folks growing up - but I can see how father&#039;s can abandon their unique rolls when we don&#039;t hold ourselves to being the fathers our daughters ought to have...  
 
my girl asked me the other day if daddy ever cries - and i told her yes, when things hurt.  I don&#039;t think she needs me to be an impervious pillar of strength - but we&#039;re probably suppose to play both hero and plain old frodo at the right times, and teach our daughters to do the same. 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great point Chris &#8211; it&#39;s a weird balance between &#39;playing&#39; the hero and just being a genuine human being.  Meeker comes right out and says our daughters need a hero and not an equal &#8211; which is what I (and probably a lot of other guys in our culture these days) tend towards.   </p>
<p>Maybe it&#39;s out of a longing for a better friendship with my folks growing up &#8211; but I can see how father&#39;s can abandon their unique rolls when we don&#39;t hold ourselves to being the fathers our daughters ought to have&#8230;  </p>
<p>my girl asked me the other day if daddy ever cries &#8211; and i told her yes, when things hurt.  I don&#39;t think she needs me to be an impervious pillar of strength &#8211; but we&#39;re probably suppose to play both hero and plain old frodo at the right times, and teach our daughters to do the same. </p>
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