How do you really feel when someone gives you a gift, stating that they gave to instead to a charity, in your name?
– Awesome, I didn’t get you anything either!
– oh… thanks… with slight disappointment.
– Good for you for donating. It really doesn’t mean much to me that it’s in my name.
– Rather than you being the better person this year, why didn’t you tell me about the cause so I could’ve donated as well?